Looks like fun, doesn't it?

We think so, which is why this weekend we're hoping to make it out to Assateague Island, just a short swim away from Chicoteague, as in Misty of. The ignorance of both book and island amongst the people here is amazing, given we are just three short hours away from it. When I mentioned it this morning as my class was talking about Labor Day plans, I think they probably thought it was a strip club. Anyway, it's supposed to be a beautiful wildlife refuge, you can camp for cheap on the beach, lots of places to hike, and hey--wild ponies, 'nuff said.

In more modest ambitions, either before or after our pilgrimmage to the coast, we're planning to make semifreddo, an Italian ice-cream concoction that for whatever reason eliminates the need to monkey around with rock salt and an ice cream machine but is supposed to turn out luscious and creamy nonetheless. We'll let you know how it goes, and of course, there will be pictures.

Otherwise, looking ahead to next weekend (if you can't tell, the novelty of having these things called "weekends" that we actually enjoy together still holds a strong sense of charm for us) we're hoping to combine the Farm Aid trip with the King Tut trip and camp in between in New Jersey. We may be the only two people in the world who would agree to such an itinerary, particularly one that combines the words "camp" and "New Jersey," but hey, that's why we married each other.

When it rains

We make out in it? NO...when it rains, it pours, of course. Literally (for us and especially for the Midwest) but figuratively as well, in that we go almost a week without posting and then, within the space of 24 hours, we have posted not one, not two, but three updates. Has our life changed substantially, or have there been any interesting developments?

Nope, not really. The simple fact is that we just have more time to post on the weekends.

I've now officially survived my first full week of law school and lived to tell about it. Things are still doing really well on that front; I feel like I'm learning a lot, the workload is intense but doable, and I'm getting more comfortable speaking up in classes. I still really enjoy my professors as well as a number of my classmates. However, by the end of the week, I was starting to feel a certain--not depression, really, but slightly disconcerting numbness that I think comes from existing in a very cerebral cycle of reading, listening, and writing, with very little meaningful human interaction woven into it. It's like when you spend an entire day alone and realized you can't remember when you last spoke. It's a very inward, kind of isolating feeling and in this case it's not my own actions and ideas I've been focusing on--it's a third-party kind of introspection that I think will naturally broaden over time as I become involved with activities and organizations beyond the dictated first-year classes. I'm looking forward to that, and it's also something that makes me glad I haven't up and quit my job yet; because, whatever else nursing has riding against it, I've always felt grateful that at least you don't have to fight to make it meaningful. You're tending to people at an intimate and vulnerable point in their lives and as long as you pay a reasonable degree of attention, it's hard to make it not meaningful. Although I'll admit I've seen people who have.

On that front, Friday and Saturday I worked at the hospital again. Chaos still abounded but I feel like I'm getting down a system that works for me. That probably includes leaving out a lot of the paperwork details that I should be doing, and it doesn't include talking to anyone or actually taking a meal or a bathroom break in order to get out on time; but at this point I feel like my practice is only as good as my training, and I'm doing the best I can. In terms of patient care and nursing knowledge, I feel like I've been trained pretty well; as far as the idiosyncracies of this particular hospital, two haphazard shifts were hardly enough. Anyway, suffice it to say that I actually really enjoyed the opportunity to be a nurse again, felt like I connected pretty well with my [10-12] patients, and am not dreading too terribly the requisite two shifts I need to work a month.

In smaller news, someone gave me The Ornamental Grass Kit awhile back and the day before yesterday I finally gotten around to planting it. I'm thrilled because where yesterday morning there was nothing, today I have four fresh shoots! (Matt saw them last night but wanted to let me discover them on my own. Awww). Here they are, in all their glory:
Yes, welcome to the city, where four shoots of grass feel like a modern-day miracle. They live on our kitchen windowsill, next to the basil plant which you can just see in the corner of this picture. The window is also where a multitude of ants seem to be finding their way into our kitchen. We heard that a natural way to repel ants is with clove oil, leading us to spend some entertaining moments corraling a few with Lincoln-log-esque enclosures made from whole cloves, but we ultimately concluded it was a little too labor-intensive a solution for a problem of the magnitude that is ours, and so have conceded to using ant traps. Yes, we are the people who objected so strenuously (to our own detriment, as you'll recall) to the idea of extermination, but this is on a much smaller scale.

Otherwise, our biggest triumph today was finding an Aldi's. We have been disappointed to find that our painstakingly created Iowa food budget wasn't exactly cutting the mustard in DC. We were shopping mainly at Safeway due to reasons of proximity, but this weekend were finally fed up with shelling out over $50 a week for a gallon of milk, a tub (well, maybe two tubs) of sour cream, and the few other things we aren't getting at the Eastern Market and so we plotted out the route to the closest Aldi's, about 5 miles (or around 15 minutes) away. We've realized that, in general, if you want to shop the yuppie/pricey stores, go to Virginia; for solid, working-class bargains for folks like ourselves, it's Destination Maryland.

At Aldi's, we were overjoyed to find that even after stocking up on eight (in our defense, they were only a quarter apiece!) bags of organic blue corn tortilla chips (after an impulse buy at the EM that included eight or nine different varieties of chili peppers for a mere $3, salsa is most definitely on the menu), a ton of dairy, a number of baking staples, two bottles of olive oil, some snacks, and some produce, our total was still only the $50 we would have spent at Safeway for far less. We also found a Target in the same neighborhood and were able to pick up a coffee grinder (necessitated by our desire to make pibil and the fact that what we were previously using for a spice mill crapped out...so we relegated our current coffee grinder to a spice grinder and upgraded to what we hope will be a sturdy investment for grinding coffee) as well as a shadowbox for our large, unconventionally-sized, giant-starfished-and-thus-quite-delicate wedding certificate so that we can finally finally take that out of storage and put it into decorative circulation--ALL made possible compliments of the generous Target giftcards we were fortunate enough to receive as wedding/going-away presents, largely from my very kindhearted former co-workers.

So anyway...I'm happy to report that even after working the rest of the weekend, our day today was a relaxing one of sleeping in, coffee drinking, paper reading, shopping, and, of course, COOKING--so I think we're both actually feeling pretty refreshed and ready for the week ahead.

Tell me--when, as a night nurse, did you ever hear me say that?

Mango-Habanero Salsa

This is an extra spicy salsa that goes well by itself on tortilla chips or is especially good on grilled fish. BEWARE-it is very spicy! Use gloves when chopping the habanero or you will regret it. My fingers are still burning!

1 Mango
1 Habanero Chili, seeded, deveined and chopped small
16 oz can of pineapple
1/2 large red tomato
1/2 yellow onion
1 small red pepper
1 small bunch of cilantro or mint, chopped
1/2 t cumin
1/2 t salt
1/8 cup vinegar
1/8 cup lime juice

Cut the mango, pineapple, tomato, onion and red pepper into small cubes. Add chili, cilantro or mint, cumin, salt, vinegar and lime juice. Mix up well and let the mixture sit for an hour before you serve.

Wanna see something funny...

Me in a suit.


Wanna hear something even sillier. I wear these every day. It is very surprising to me that I dress like this every day. If you would have asked me even a month ago, what I would be doing in the future, I would have never told you this. The thing that is even more surprising-I like it quite a bit. I work with very smart, kind people and the work is important in the arts field. Why it is important would take more explaining than is necessary here but take my word for it. Anyway, my first week is done and it went very well. The job is starting slowly and I am being given ample time to read all of the publications that NASM has on their website (along with the art, dance and theater organizations as well.) It will be getting very busy at work here in a little bit as the preparations begin for the big meetings in the fall. On another note, I am going to be attending the NASM Annual Meeting in Salt Lake City this fall right before Thanksgiving. While I am looking forward to the meeting since it will be a good chance for me to meet administrators from around the country, I am not looking forward to being away from Katie. It will be the first time since the wedding that we will have not been together every day and I am sure it will be very hard for both of us but I am hoping all of you drop her phone calls and lines while I am away.

In general, things are going very well for both of us. Katie is really enjoying law school and we are both loving living in the city. Tomorrow we have plans to do some cooking so I am sure there will be pictures of food and recipes on the way. Until then, best wishes.

I realize the risk of making a statement like I am about to on what is only my first official day of law school, but those of you who know me are aware that I don’t shy away from things just because they’re risky, and so, at the risk of issuing a statement which I may later tearfully retract, I’m just going to go ahead and say it:

I’m

really

enjoying

law school.

First of all, GW has done a spectacular job of creating a place that is welcoming, non-intimidating, and in which every kind of assistance is accessible. I have laughed more during orientation and my preliminary classes than I ever thought I would, and today enjoyed a thorough explanation of contract law that used as its framework (with the appropriate supporting media) the bargain in which Ariel (the Little Mermaid) trades her voice to the Sea Witch for legs.

Second, my classmates are, for the most part, extremely friendly and refreshingly well-rounded. So far, I haven’t detected much in the way of competitiveness or one-upmanship, but instead a sense of actual camaraderie in the form of “Hey, I thought this was kind of hard…are you having trouble, too, and would you want to work on it together?” Even someone as admittedly reclusive and antisocial as I am has difficulty fending off these types of advances.

Third, while they keep making an effort to warn us that study of the law raises Questions Which Have No Answers, I find that law school provides a good deal more distance from—and luxury of time to debate the answers to—these Questions than I found as a nurse, when I would encounter Questions like “This patient needs something I don’t know how to find,” or “We don’t have enough nurses to safely provide care for these patients,” or “I think the doctor is wrong and that could turn out to be pretty serious” or “Both of these women’s babies are tanking and the operating rooms are full.” Questions from which you can’t just close the book, leave the desk, and walk away, but in which you are actually confronted with no viable path of action. I went into law specifically because of these questions, not because I have answers to them but because I hope to find ways in which we can reduce the instances in which people are forced to confront them. Based on that motivation, and that experience, merely grappling with the questions—rather than attempting to solve them unqualified—seems like maybe a pretty reasonable task for now.

Fourth, the QUIET. Holy crap. I spend my entire day (except for classes, of course) in an environment that rivals a library or a church sanctuary. How can something so peaceful ever get stressful??

And really, I think the biggest part of my newfound contentment both in DC and in law school has to do with the fact that I’m finally going with the flow. I’m not swimming upstream to try to sleep during the day, I’m not fighting my body to regularly stay awake for more than 36 hours at a time, I’m not having to constantly deny the urge to not just sleep in the same bed as my husband, but to do so at the same time. Matt and I are ecstatic to have our schedules finally align well enough that we can start and end every day together. My worries about whether I would ever be free from the sleep problems that have long plagued me proved to be unfounded; for once, I am the member of our household who is most likely to be sleepy at bedtime, and most reliably up when the alarm clock goes off. It’s unbelievable. And I love it.

To be fair, though, I will lodge the complaint that my backpack, on a typical day, weighs over 30 pounds.

I’m hoping to be legally well-versed enough by the end of this semester to be able to recover damages for whatever injuries I happen to incur in the process.

PS: And in relevant legal issues: for those who are concerned, our landlords seem to have (hopefully!) concluded that pushing the cat issue with us would be a losing battle and is not worth their effort. For now, anyway.

Odds & Ends

Not much is going on with us this weekend--I'm working on readings for my first "real" day of law school, and Matt is getting ready for work tomorrow--so we thought we'd share a couple of videos. The first is of the Arlington County Pig Races, courtesy of the Arlington County Fair, which we briefly attended this morning.

The second features not only Will Ferrell but also his daughter, Pearl. Most people are familiar with their first joint project, The Landlord, by now, but we think the second one might be even funnier.

No pics or recipes this time

Hi All,

So many twists and turns in the last year of our lives. As Katie is off at law school today, I am sitting here getting ready for my new job. When Katie and I first got together, one of the first things that we talked about was the fact that we were not going to be in Iowa forever. We both talked about moving somewhere, possibly the Eastern US but also maybe further. As time wore on Katie's choice of going to law school became more fixed and the options somewhat narrowed on where to go, most places being out east. Oddly enough, as I made my way through grad school, I knew I had to do something different. School was no longer making me happy. I decided to try to utilize my undergrad education degree and I applied for many teaching jobs in the Washington DC area, eventually having some offered to me. That brings me to about three weeks ago. I was informed by an instructor at the University of Iowa about a position open at NASM, or the National Association of Schools of Music in Reston, Virginia, just a short drive outside DC. I thought, well, one last try at something different. After a week of very thorough interviews, I was offered a job as the assistant to the executive director. The decision to take this job was not an easy one for us because this offered very different perks and limitations than public school teaching did. After a weekend of hard thought, we decided to take it.

While I am very excited to be doing something so different than I have previously done, I am still nervous and surprised that this is what I will be doing. I will be wearing a suit every day, going to an office and doing various things such as handling business, writing, working with publications, policy and other matters associated with NASM as well as other organizations that work with art, dance and theater schools. I am sure with this job, as with all jobs, there will be things I do not like doing. That is what one gets paid for-to do the shit work that no one likes to do. Alternatively, with this job I get to work with people from all across the country, be involved in materials that shape collegiate arts education, and to learn about administration, writing, policy and many other things that I do not even know about yet.

I am very optimistic that this job will add to the already wonderful life that Katie and I have together. I feel that it is with renewed vigor that we meet the world-ready to make change in places that it is needed while enjoying our lives together. I am personally enjoying not having a TV. We have been reading, talking, playing music together, cooking and seeing the city. While we go through hard times from time to time, our life is always interesting. So that is what's up with us today.